The Bind with Greg Flynn
A podcast for men and the people who love them. It's all about helping men untangle the beliefs and behaviors that keep us stuck, stressed, and in shame.
Episodes
34 episodes
What do you practice?
It’s been a minute, and I’ve missed this, um, practice of recording The Bind.I’d been waiting to finish the trilogy of episodes that Jordan and I had started (Check out ‘Why Do Men Is...
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27:10
Why Do Men Have a Hard Time Feeling Their Feelings?
We are back with episode two of our three episode arc—once again, joined by Jordan Ferretti.Go check out seattlemenscircle.com for information on ...
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39:30
Why Do Men Isolate?
We're back! And we're back with a three part series that features my good friend and collaborator Jordan Ferretti of Team Builder Dojo. Each of these episodes will be paired with an on...
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41:52
Good grief!
Hey! It’s been a minute.Some stuff’s been on my mind, and I thought I’d share with you.Let me know how it lands for you.You can always reach me at greg@gregorybflynn.comSome links for things mentioned in this epi...
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Episode 30
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20:03
Walkin' and talkin'
A bit of a different one today. I wanted to explroe something that’s been on my mind, but not be glued to my desk (with my fancy microphone). So if you’re listening to this one, you’re on a walk with me.One of the things I pretty much al...
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Episode 29
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18:18
You have to put yourself in a position to be uncomfortable (a conversation with Mike Joseph)
This one is far and reaching and was a lot of fun.Quick CW: brief mention of suicide ideation.Mike Joseph is the host and producer of the podcast Detoxicity, which aims to rewrite the code for what’s cons...
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54:24
Hey guys! This weekend I learned to . . .
Let's take a little step into anger, shame, difficulty in self-regulation.I'm not proud of the stories I tell here, but that's the point behind telling them. My thanks to good friend Jordan Ferretti for helping me see that there...
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Episode 27
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15:54
Unquestionable
Where do you find your value?Work? Family? Friends?What if your value had nothing to do with those things?How's that for the shortest show notes yet?I'd love to hear how this lands: greg@gregorybflynn.com or IG: ...
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Episode 26
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18:40
8 questions
Bear with me here. I had some notes on something I was going to record about, but really just didn’t feel it. So then I took another idea I’d been kicking around, and decided to record that. 10 minutes in: nope.So, I de...
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It doesn't mean we can't flourish (A conversation with Jim Struve of Men Healing)
CW: Themes of sexual violence and abuse.This is a different kind of episode from what I've done in the past. While I typically talk about male conditioning and issues around masculinity, this one is quite specific: talking about male su...
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50:07
There's a %!#*^&@ voice inside
A follow up to last week's episode: why is it that we often behave that way? What was going on in me that I'd be such a dick sometimes to my friend? As I said in this episode: I chalked it up to masculinity, and I chalked...
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Episode 23
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18:20
It just feels awful
A nice and short one for spring!We had a great Seattle Men's Circle Happy Hour this past Monday, which was refreshing after the first one we did in February. In this episode I chat a bit about why that might be—what we did differently t...
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18:58
I was a beautiful kid (A conversation with Efraín Gutiérrez)
I truly enjoyed having this conversation with Efraín—someone I’d met so long ago and recently connected with. His journey into his own personal work around felt familiar, yet deeply different to me.Efraín brings in a part of the discussi...
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Episode 21
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56:43
Breaking out of tiny boxes: Live! (A conversation and some poetry with Christian Skoorsmith)
This is a very special episode of The Bind (appropriate for #20, eh?).I’ve mentioned in the past that my friend Christian invited me to join him at the his inaugural event–an event that will be held quarterly on the Equinox or Solstice–t...
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Episode 20
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1:13:47
Somebody said to us: stop crying
So, another short one. Yet, one that touches on something I’ve been thinking a lot about: what does it look like to just feel what we are feeling?Not try to change it. Not try to “fix” it. Not try to get over it.Just feel...
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Episode 19
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20:47
Nobody was excited to have Greg on their kickball team
Rejection. Or, at least, perceived rejection. How do you experience it?That’s where I went in this episode. First, however, I had to pay tribute to the fact that I’m hitting the three year anniversary of starting the me...
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Episode 18
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25:53
Just gonna say it: It can feel tricky to be a man these days
A short and sweet one. Well, definitely short. Not sure how sweet.There are some things in here that I’ve been wanting to say for a while, but haven’t quite been sure how to. There’s a lot more to unpack about it for sure. For now, I wan...
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Episode 17
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18:59
This is a ticking time bomb (A conversation with Whitney Peper)
How do you advocate for yourself? I mean, really?I’ve been wanting to have Whitney on the podcast from day one. He’s a good friend, and brings a great perspective to this work. We’ve had many hours of conversations about what it...
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Episode 16
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53:59
I left him behind (A conversation with Thomas Ameel)
I met Thomas through a mutual friend, and immediately enjoyed the conversations we were having. He’s a Belgian therapist living in Portland, OR, and doing some similar things to what I’m working on here in in Seattle.We decided to just s...
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Episode 15
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53:26
What's your pace?
I had a bunch of notes on what I was going to talk about today, but wasn't really feeling any of it. Instead, I decided to talk about the pace that we are moving. What pace can we do this work? Work that is often about healing, about connecting...
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Episode 14
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21:34
It’s unattainable, guys (A conversation with Jeff Perera)
What’s the vision of masculinity that you received as you were growing up? Odds are, it’s not actually attainable.In this episode, I chatted with a friend I made when I (admittedly a bit embarrassingly) played around with the audio app <...
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Episode 13
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48:18
Seeing the common thread (A conversation with Weston Karnes)
Finally! I was excited that Weston and I were able to get this time set aside to dive into this conversation (especially since he’s taking a month away to enjoy the desert of Southern California).Weston created
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Episode 12
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54:55
Is there more?
Well, I was hoping to have a guest for you this week. Ah well, wasn’t meant to be, I guess. Soon, though, I promise!In the meantime, I wanted to take another look at the idea that “we are conditioned to live in tiny boxes.” What do I mea...
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Episode 11
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